A guilty pleasure from which I take some satisfaction is reading the r/Marriage subreddit (that's a message board on Reddit.com) in my nightly quest to reach the end of the internet. Normally, it is posts such as “I think my wife is having an affair with the cook at The Waffle House” that help me realize that I’ve probably got it pretty good in the marriage department. But occasionally, I’ll see a post or comment that is also excellent advice. That was the case recently when a widow from Texas posted, “Remembering the good times and sharing some advice for couples.”